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What is swinging?: Swinging is defined as a form of recreational social and sexual intercourse between consenting adults. Swingers commonly consisting of male/female couples meeting with other male/female couples for sex and ongoing intimacy. It is simply being open about your sexual feelings and being adventurous about it.
Swinging began in the early 1950's. During that time the only way to meet other swingers was through personal ads in the newspapers. Today individuals and couples who are interested in the swinging lifestyle can go to internet, clubs or organization that specializes in this type of sexual expression.

What can I expect from a swinging lifestyle?: A swinger lifestyle is free from a world of frustration and lost loves. The swinger's lifestyle simply gives and receive pleasure, but there are a few important points to remember if you are to enter a swinger lifestyle:

No one should swing unless they really want to.
No one should ever go into a swinging life style if they are at all uncertain of their own wishes or of the strength of their emotional relationship with their partner.
Swinger's life style is based upon communication more then any other factors.
Couples involved in swinger's lifestyle should have the ability to talk openly about there feelings with one another.
Learning to do this must precede any decision or discussion of entering the life style.

Common Types of Swinger Lifestyle

Soft swinging - This is involves in watching another couple during sexual relations. It may also include foreplay with other partners, sometimes including oral sex, but no vaginal penetration will takes places. Soft swinging can add spice to a couple's relationship and allowing them to have fun without the risk of jealously. Many couples start off with soft swinging as this is a good way to explore a swinger's life style.
Closed swinging - This is where partner swap, but have sexual intercourse in separate rooms. Closed swinging allows couples and individual for a more intimate experience. Many people feel this allows them more freedom to explore with fewer interruptions of their enjoyment.
Open swinging - This kind of swinging allows partners to swap and have sexual intercourse in the same room, or bed. This includes orgies and it is great for exhibitionist and voyeurs, who can show off or just enjoy watching their partner play. Many swingers find open swinging allows for total release of their sexual desires and fantasies. An open swinging is successful when all members in the group demonstrate no jealousy.

When you enter a swinger life style you must be very health conscious. Always practice safe sex and make sure you and your partner are disease free. Many swingers would say they practice safe sex, but they probably don't. So some kinds of health risks always exist. It is up to you to make your own judgment.
More and more people are getting into swinger life style as this give couples and individuals a break for the senseless tension and demanding stress in their daily life. Refreshing sex is the best antidote to relieve stress. A swinger lifestyle teaches you to give and take pleasure like the way you have never experience before. Online swinger clubs helps you to get in touch and later get in bed with people who are from different regions, locales or even nations. It makes you aware of a whole new culture and the many different ways to make love. When you experience a swinger's life style you would enjoy the power of a touch, the romance of a kiss, the meaning of fondles and the excitement of a caress.

Swinging Principles: Swinging is not simply being open about your sexual feelings and being adventurous about it. You and your partner should follow some swinging principles to ensure that your encounter is also fun and fulfilling.

The following are some suggested swinging principles that you and your partner may want to use:

1. You and your partner should never attempt to break up a marriage.
   
2. When a date is made, always keep up to it or else give ample time of notice for changing circumstances.
3. It is important to keep the first meeting on a "no strings attached" basis. You and your partner should be prepared to swing if it is mutually agreed or to give an honest answer if something does not work out.
4. It is reminder that you never under any circumstances exercise pressure on your partner to swing.
5. It is suggested that you and your partner restrict discussions of swinging to known swingers and interested individuals seeking information.
6. Be wise and protect the anonymity of other swingers by abstaining from unauthorized "name dropping."
7. For the stake of other swingers, always maintain the highest standards of personal cleanliness and appearance.
8. Be smart and not to engage in any unlawful activity that would harm the reputation of other swingers as a group.
9. Always be friendly and warm with your swing partners. Be understanding that there is a type of emotional involvement, which is properly reserved for a spouse or "primary significant other." 
10. Lastly, remember to show respect for the personal attitudes and feelings of other swingers.

There are many benefits being a swinger: Swinger get to explore their sexuality and sensuality in new ways that are not found or easily accepted in traditional communities. Swinging it a good way for bi-curious women and men to explore their potential bisexuality without becoming involved in the lesbian or gay community where many feels uncomfortable or unwelcome. Swinging allows both men and women the opportunity to reject monogamy. Individuals can also explore and learn lots more about their sexual interests. Swinging can enhance a relationship and the commitment involved in the couple’s relationship, but it should be remember that it also requires a strong level of trust and security. For many people watching their partner being sexual with another obviously is arousing and very hot. Also, becoming a swinger allows you to make and meet many new friends.

There are many myths about swinging. Swinging is not appropriate for all couples if your current relationship is unhealthy and unstable. Swinging would then likely tear the couple apart through insecurity, jealousy, or a lack of honest communication. It is not appropriate for a swinger to cheat on their partner just like it is not appropriate for an individual in a monogamous relationship to cheat. But if you are a swinger, all parties agree that the relationship is completely open and honest.

Traditionally swinging is not about dishonesty, lying, or closed communication. Swinging is not ever to promote unsafe sex practice. Swinging is just for couples and individual who are looking for quality sexual and/or sensual experiences. It is not for frequent sexual encounters with anonymous partners.

Swinger Stories

Swinger story 1: Recently, my wife and I experimented with a swinger lifestyle. We were very turn on by the experience. We both agreed to focus at first on other men for male-female-male (m-f-m) threesomes. We both when online together on a swinger site and spent a great deal of time chatting with different guys. We met a couple of them over lunch. After we got to know them we invited one over into our bedroom. The sex was great! I've never seen my wife so turned on before. I was extremely turned on by seeing her with another man too. For several months she was like a sexual animal - even when we were alone.

After about five or six m-f-m's, I told her it was time to start focusing on my fantasy: an female-male -female (f-m-f). Over the next several weeks we chatted with several women online and as well met them for lunch. Finally, we invited one over. The sex was so great it was unbelievable. My wife enjoyed the female and female encounter too.

We both agree the swinger lifestyle has enhanced our sex life. We plan to experience further more with other couples.

Swinger story 2: My boyfriend and I are in our late 20's and just move into our own apartment. One night when Jeff was surfing on the internet he came across some article about swingers and their lifestyles. He called me over and asked me to read it with him. After reading it we just smile at each other. For me I was a bit curious about what it would be like to have such encounter with another couple. I didn't asked what Jeff thought about it. So I just left that curiosity to myself.

It was long before we settle down into the new apartment and met a married couple, Belinda and Bill who lived in the apartment next to ours. They were in the 30's. Both were well educated and had professional jobs. To welcome is the new neighbors, Belinda and Bill invited us over to there place for dinner. After dinner, we chatted over a couple of drinks. Then we came to the topic about swingers. Belinda and Bill both smile at us and said that we are both into swinging too. Before I could ask further more, Belinda walked over to Jeff and started to kiss him. Jeff didn't seem to disapprove her. I think it was the alcohol; I got up and went over to Bill. And one thing leads to the other. It wasn't long before we were having sex with each others partners. I was so aroused by Bill touching and kissing me, maybe because he is an older and more experience man.

After that night, Jeff and I agreed it was the best thing we ever did. Our relationship is stronger then ever, not only that our sex life is even much better. These days we still hang out with our neighbor. They have even introduced us to other swinger couples.